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Child Protective Services False Allegations

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Why I Started the FightCPS Website

Every day in the USA families face false accusations of child abuse. Children are frequently unjustly ripped from their families and placed in foster homes.

These families suffer extreme trauma and depression in their attempts to be together again.

FightCPS is a family rights website that seeks to assist parents and others who are falsely accused of child abuse and neglect.

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Many Children in Foster Care are Traumatized by Separation From Loving Parents

Wounded Innocents
Wounded Innocents

Long regarded as a powerful, insightful exploration of the child abuse industry by a tireless advocate for family rights. Author Richard Wexler was associated with the National Coalition For Child Protection Reform (NCCPR).

 

Why I Help Victims of False Child Abuse Allegations

Many people have asked why I would try to help people whose children were taken away from them by Child Protective Services. Here are a few of my reasons:

  1. Many accusations of abuse or neglect are false. False accusations can come from anonymous callers, doctors, nurses, neighbors, school teachers, or even the social workers themselves. People who are falsely accused and have their children taken are devastated, and need legal information and social support. Fight CPS helps with both those needs.
  2. A large percentage of the young parents falsely accused of child abuse or neglect are impoverished, and must rely on court appointed attorneys for representation in juvenile court settings. These court appointed attorneys are notorious for doing almost nothing to help their CPS clients. They seem like they're there to guide people through the court process, but don't provide any type of aggressive defense. So my site, Fight CPS, fills in the gap by showing people how to provide their own evidence and legal paperwork.
  3. When parents are sent to juvenile court they are denied constitutional rights such as the right to a jury trial, the right to a public trial, and the right to be confronted by their accusers. Yet they stand to lose their children, one of the saddest and most heartrending losses known to humankind. This lack of constitutional safeguards leaves child detention hearings open to gross injustices, the like of which few people believe could happen in America - unless they've been through it.
  4. Federal statistics show that children in foster homes are about ten times more likely to be abused sexually, physically, emotionally, and mentally than children in their natural family homes. They are even more likely to be killed. A recent study concluded that foster children are more likely to have teen pregnancies and to become juvenile delinquents. The study said that children are better off when left with their natural families, even if those families have severe problems.
  5. Social work should be a process of helping families resolve and recover from problems, not a process of tearing families apart forever and traumatizing children for life. This imbalance in the social work profession has been caused by federal legislation that gives financial incentives in the form of federal funding and social security reimbursements when children are torn from their homes and placed in foster homes.


Children are Abused in Foster Homes - Many Children Have Died While in the Custody of the Child Welfare System.

Children are Dying in Foster Homes
Children are Dying in Foster Homes

Children Killed Under the "Care" of Child "Protective" Services

Activism to Help Victims of False Allegations

Child protective services (CPS) often accuses people erroneously, or takes children for trivial reasons.

This page clarifies family rights issues and explains why I choose to help families who have been torn apart by CPS, something that's happening far too often these days.

CPS false accusations are a travesty of justice, one I cannot silently ignore because I've felt the sting of false accusations made by a CPS caseworker, and resolved to try to prevent this injustice from continuing.

I haven't been able to stop it, but I have helped many families to fight the CPS injustice system and get their children back.

Sir Edmund Burke, a British statesman, said, "Evil flourishes when good men do nothing."

I believe that if everyone would choose a social issue, this one or another, and devote their lives to it, many wrongs of this world could be made right again. I have devoted myself to the cause of helping to reunite families attacked by CPS false accusations.

If you've been targeted by a Child Protective Services agent, the best thing you can do is get a good lawyer.

Next, a positive step forward is to read my site, FightCPS, and others like it.

Learn as much as you can so you can help defend yourself and help your lawyer plan an effective defense.

Collection of documentary evidence in your favor is crucial.

You can find information that may help you develop a strategy for fighting your CPS case.

Where to start?

The most important pages on the FightCPS website

This article is a quick guide to the most important pages on the FightCPS website. Read this first.

Psychotropic Drugs are Given to Foster Children

Foster children are often forced to take multiple psychotropic drugs. Foster and adoptive parents get extra "special needs" money for damaged kids, so they rush to take children to doctors known for their willingness to prescribe medications regardless of whether the child actually needs them.

This is well-documented.

Many people are aware of this now, and it is a tragic practice that could affect a foster child's brain and nervous system for life. Some children have died because of it.

They are forcing foster children onto psychotropic medications after they're traumatized by being forced to leave their families.

Read more about it here: Drugging Foster Children, where you'll find multiple tragic case histories including the testimony of former foster children.

CPS Approves the Drugging of Foster Children - Here's the Proof

Grandparents Never Forget Children Lost to the System

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Remember Cynthia Rose

Grandparents Fight to Save Their Grandchildren from CPS

Remember Cynthia Rose: Grandparents Fight to Keep Their Grandchildren (For Our Children)
Remember Cynthia Rose: Grandparents Fight to Keep Their Grandchildren (For Our Children)

CPS workers often violate Kinship Care rights.

If your adult child is unable to be a parent to his or her child, you may also be deprived of the right to be a grandparent.

Even though there are Kinship Care regulations in place in every state, CPS caseworkers often try to adopt children out to strangers anyway.

This book sheds light on the deprivation of the rights of grandparents.

 

The FightCPS Website

The FightCPS website provides support and information to families falsely accused of child abuse or neglect.
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The FightCPS website provides support and information to families falsely accused of child abuse or neglect.
Source: FightCPS

History and Philosophy of Fight CPS

My fight against the injustices of the child welfare system has been ongoing since 1989 when my fourth child, a newborn infant, was taken from the hospital by a social worker because her father had battered me when I was pregnant. I found out first-hand what it felt like to show up at court to find a social worker's court report full of slander and lies.

In 1990 I started writing articles about CPS cases. Numerous parents came to me asking for my help in publicizing the cruelty and injustices they were enduring, including direct lies by social workers in court reports. My articles were published in The Enterprise News, a weekly newspaper in Central California owned by a kind Libertarian, Richard Palmquist, who also owned a Christian radio station. I also made a few public appearances including a call-in talk show on that radio station and a televised talk show in Fresno, California.

Next I got involved in exposing CPS using the FidoNet BBS network from 1991 through 1997. I was not as active in meeting people with open CPS cases at that time because I was busy raising my own children.

The Fight CPS website has been online since October 2000. I started it a month after starting the Child Protection Reform Yahoo Group - which I've since passed on to other owners so that I can spend more time improving Fight CPS.

I started Fight CPS because at the time, there weren't many sites on the internet that informed people about the topic of family rights. And some of the sites that already existed didn't seem to fulfill the needs of the people. For example, one large site had lots of good information, but forbade anyone from mentioning any other sites that might help. I felt this was too controlling - that the flow of information had to be free so that people could learn more from each other.

Therefore one of my main goals with Fight CPS, at the beginning, was to collect links to information, to encourage others to start sites, and to link to their sites, and promote them. To this day Fight CPS allows all family rights sites to be linked on the site.

The front page of Fight CPS is now a WordPress blog. It started out with no blog at all, on Geocities in 2000. It moved to its own domain name in 2002. In 2004 I put a Blogger.Com blog on the front page of the site. In 2007 I changed it to a WordPress blog for better search engine optimization.

Child Protection/Abduction Services - The Modern Mafia: Federally Financed Perjury, Fraud, Kidnapping, and Child Drugging for Profit

Child Protection/Abduction Services: The Modern Mafia: Federally Financed Perjury, Fraud, Kidnapping, and Child Drugging for Profit
Child Protection/Abduction Services: The Modern Mafia: Federally Financed Perjury, Fraud, Kidnapping, and Child Drugging for Profit

Look! Another new book about CPS. This was recommended by someone on the FightCPS message board.

Published June 27, 2012.

 

The Fight CPS Message Forum

...social support and legal information.

Families involved in CPS cases are welcome to participate in the Fight CPS Message Forum where there are other parents and grandparents who have been through the system and who want to help and counsel others.

The Fight CPS Message Forum is frequented by helpful advocates. When you register at the forum, there's a short wait until the forum administrator activates your account. The forum is closed to non-registered viewers and is not listed in Google search results, for the privacy of the participants.

We have an official FightCPS Facebook Group that gets lots of traffic and helps lots of people. This is a great place to find support from other parents.

An Inside View

Memoirs of a Baby Stealer: Lessons I've Learned as a Foster Mother
Memoirs of a Baby Stealer: Lessons I've Learned as a Foster Mother

This book was written by a foster parent who was shocked and dismayed to see the level of manipulation and insincerity evinced by Child Protective Services social workers she came in contact with.

Mary Callahan never intended to become a foster parent so she could write a book. She just wanted to help children. But in the end, she had to tell the story of what she learned by fostering five children; the abuses within the system were just that bad. This woman had a healthy conscience.

She wrote: "They are taking kids from places that aren't that bad, putting them in places that aren't that good, and completely ignoring the bond that exists between parent and child."'

 

Any Questions?

Questions about the goals and history of Fight CPS are welcome. Also, if you're going through a Child Protective Services case, you're welcome to tell us about it.


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Marinemomma3 3 weeks ago

Hello. I am currently living in Indiana. About a month ago my oldest daughter who is 4 took my youngest daughter who is 1 out of her crib while i was at work. My middle child age 2 was sleeping still. I had left them in the care of my boyfriend as i normally do and came home to find the oldest watching cartoons and the youngest cuddled up with my boyfriend sleeping. a normal scenario that i came home to. no chaos just peace. he had woke up and told me what had happened with my oldest getting the baby out and showed me the mark on the babies and her face and explained that he told my daughter she cannot get the baby out of bed. i took pictures sent them through text to my mother asking if i should have the baby examined or if i was right by just keeping an eye on her. she was fine and i put a little witches hazel on her face to help with bruising. this was all on saturday morning. monday morning i have daycare reporting to cps that my children are abused and asking my oldest daughter who hit her and her sister in the eye. that evening we go to the local emergency room, i watch my children be examined and the doctor was going to let us go until the cps case worker decided to have labs xrays and ct scans done. my children were tormented. my son held down by three women screaming for me while every bone in his body xrayed resulting in 19 bruises all over his body. he is 2 and has asthma as well. my children stuck with needles and blood drawn. the doctors still find no traumas no signs of neglect or abuse cps says they need more " information' and have my children given to my mother an alcoholic and my sister investigated by the same case worker and a drug addict. we go to court and cps tries to say my daughter has a broken hip the oldest and they had not received medical records yet. mind you i went to school for occupational therapy, i know the effects of a broken hip. they still say they need more information and case continued. i need a lawyer. the court appointed lawyer non aggressive. they order my children to go through more testing this time with contrast dye. they are hooked up to IV's and have a dye that is harsh to an adults kidneys ran through them resulting in no trauma or signs of abuse. still they cannot come home. I am also my children's only living parent their father was a marine iraq war veteran. he suffered from traumatic brain injury and anxiety disorder and he passed away . now we are still battling a little over a month to have the children come home no signs of abuse, no background reports, no case in my mind. i am now out of funds due to paying for a lawyer and very stressed. any advice please.


Ashley 4 weeks ago

I am so thankful to have found this support that I am not the only one who is dealing with this evil from Dcs and CPs.I live in Tennessee.I have the funds to hire a good lawyer and fight for my kids and fight for the pain and injustice and all the other evil things.I want to help other parents and there children never experience CPs. I am a christian I believe its a battle of good and evil.you have no rights to your children since CPs can take them.no matter what.there is no law for parents and there kids

Please email me I will start up a lawsuit and do whatever to get some laws past.I lost 3 of my children going on 2 years because of truancy my oldest was in kindergarten. The judge said CPs involvement. CPs found out about my children s lawsuit money from me suing the jail hospital and doctor for death of my kids dad.CPs took me to court to get the money which is in an account for kids no one can touch not even me since me and there father was never married.but CPs said that money was there's for CPs funding.thank God above the judge said no since lawsuit was in my name. So I will not stop in till we all get vengeance we need to sue and get our kids back we need to sue and get justice we can all do this if anyone in Tennessee knows a great lawyer to begin this or to help me please...email me ashleyw9086@gmail.com


sumiko 5 weeks ago

Oh ya forgot to mention they said that my baby was at high risks because of my denial and my problem acknowledge that I am a drug addict WHICH IS NOT TRUE U GOT MY HAIR FOLLICLE AND MY UA AND THEY BOTH CAME OUT NEGATIVE AND ALL THE OTHER TEST TO.. Until all of a sudden magically I was dirty and then the next day clean like serious come on they were trying to find a needle in a hay stack that wasn't there I am still fighting them til this day she is almost 2 months now..


sumiko 5 weeks ago

In the state of ARIZONA I need to find out how to fight my Cps case because Someone made a false cps call to the hotline in revenge i filled a harrasment injunction on themI was falsely acused of using drugs/sailing I was contacted by Cps while pregnant still with my first baby said they had to investigate all calls to them. They came over once never heard from them again until my baby was born had to have a c section when i was tooken to the hospital by my mom I was instanly put under anastasia then woke up all dizzy couldn't get up kept fainting out they had to give me 2 blood transfusion I guess I was supposed to be at a blood count of 11 but was at a 6. Then they said my baby had amphinamines in her system and I had meth not to mention hospital treated me like dirt and neglected to take care of my baby while in the hospital couldn’t have her in my room or anything was left in a nasty diarrhea diaper for hours the rash one her legs and Ching Ching and butt was so bad you couldn't even touch her to change it or move her around it hurt her so bad the diarrhea was on her back on her clothes it was horrible.. And when I brought it to there attention they got all offensive and said "what you accusing us of neglecting your baby in that case we need to contact Cps to let them know" this was the same day a my baby was just token out of the hospital 20 minutes before they even yelled at my mom and said "grandma you believe we neglected and agree with her accusations". My baby gained wieght in my moms care in a week after getting my baby in her temperory care then in the hospital they kept getting her wieghts mixed up I could call 1 time they say 4lb 6oz then in a hour call back now she is 3lb 15oz then call back ten minutes then now at 5lb they didn’t even have her name right the whole time. When my baby got tooken out of the hospital they did a hair follicle and a UA tests on me and they came all came out negative.. Then they couldn’t find anything out on me and after a MORE THEN A FEW UA’S they called me and said I came out dirty again but did a UA next day in the morning and it was clean again.. Making me do these programs to prove something and trying to use my sisters case against me which is eralivante to mine. :/ I am very confused on what’s going on and it just seems they are fighting extra hard for my daughter even called immigration on my husband and froze his bank account and reported him to the IRS until they get his legal status.. They been trying to get us to fight since they took my daughter right out of the hospital one they discharged me but told me she needed to stay a couple days more 5 days later exact.


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Linda BookLady 7 weeks ago from Post Falls, Idaho, USA Hub Author

It sounds like you've angered them and they're retaliating, Jenette. Have you looked for an attorney to sue them for harassment?


Jenette Fairchild 8 weeks ago from Warsaw, Indiana

warsaw indiana is corrupt. they purger themselves in court and get away with it. my granddaughter was found abandened in a crack house in NYC. new york cps contacted us but before we arrived to get her the other grandmother who molested her picked her up. her father is a twice convicted murderer, along with multipule drug offenses. but since i filed 2 tort claims against the county they have illegally removed grandchildren from me as my daughter lives with me as my caregiver. 12 county officers illegally searched and ransacked our house looking for business books, even being told our attorney had them. after looking for 2 hours they left laughing. they didn’t even have a warrent, when my husband got home he called and wanted a copy of the warrent. it took them 2 days to get a judge to sign one. they harrased another daughter of mine who has six children, they left warsaw to protect thier children from cps. my grandchildren are the victims of a vindictive and corrupt court system who allow these people to violate every right we have. they know im on disability and think they can walk all over us.


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Linda BookLady 2 months ago from Post Falls, Idaho, USA Hub Author

Good work, Mr. Booker... please keep fighting the injustice. We can't let this continue. Of course my best help ever comes from Jesus. I keep telling people we need someone with more clout and God is the most powerful ally we can appeal to. Nevertheless, please continue to do whatever you can to get legislators on board. Thanks!!


Mr. Booker 2 months ago

Goggle Adonis Booker. I've got a congressmen office involved


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Linda BookLady 2 months ago from Post Falls, Idaho, USA Hub Author

I think it is right to let a teenager go when he or she wants to make false accusations that would hurt younger siblings. There's nothing worse than living with someone who doesn't like you or doesn't want to be there! You did the right thing... even with all that transpired afterwards, you heart was in the right place.

Back in 1990 I was writing newspaper articles to try to expose CPS injustices! How times have changed since then...


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BarbRad 2 months ago from Templeton, CA Level 3 Commenter

God bless you Linda, for taking up this cause. When we were falsely accused by our daughter, we were fortunate enough to hire a highly recommended lawyer, Jerry Crow, who helped us keep Jason. He could also have gotten Sarah back, but we let her go back into the system without a fight as long as we could keep Jason. The lawyer said if we brought her home she would probably just run again.

I wish there had been a resource like your website around for us back in 1990, but we didn't even have the Internet back then. I'm glad today's victims have this help.


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Linda BookLady 2 months ago from Post Falls, Idaho, USA Hub Author

Here in the USA your case depends more on your worker's supervisor, who is really the person calling the shots. I don't know if that would apply in Canada as well.


Fuzz 2 months ago

Thank you for posting your stories and fighting for the truth. As for the person who commented that Ontario CAS does good, I ask others to look for the truth and not listen to such a load.. Cas rarely helps families, especially in Ontario. Recently there was an ombudsman appointed to be responsible for actions of the CAS, and this came only after petitions and outcries, so I believe that rather than blowig smoke, people should be looking for the truth, because it is out there amidst all this nonsense.. Cash works just like welfare does, your case depends on your worker, not so much based on the system in place as it should be..


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Linda BookLady 2 months ago from Post Falls, Idaho, USA Hub Author

What you can do to help end the child welfare system injustices: pray.

I suggest that because nobody has been able to make a dent in their power.

We need divine help. We need a Higher Authority to end the torment of families. Someone with more power than they have.


rena-camargo 2 months ago

i am mother of nine children that cps manage to put them all in there care and wont let me have any information . im tire , so tired im driving my heart stressfully , what can i do to change this dawm system


daddio101 3 months ago

Hello. I have a bit of a dilemma. I was married to my now ex wife for 17 years. She began to cheat on me and I tried to stop her but she just wouldn't. So we divorced and I kept all 3 of our kids who are now 22, 18 and 12. The 22 year old was her daughter not mine but she wanted to stay with me. Long story short. I had became very close with the 22 year old because she was a trouble maker and extremely rebellious. So being her best friend was what I found out could keep her somewhat contained. My ex moved almost 800 miles away and barely communicates with the kids or me on anything. I decided I was getting lonely and wanted to start to date. This began to inferiorate the 22 year old because she was now the woman of the home. She tried to break me and my girl friend up several times. She ended up getting pregnant and having my grand baby. Things seamed to iron out a little bit untill I announced I was getting married. The 22 year old got very angry and went against everything we have taught her and moved out with her now lesbian lover. We had problems with it but I decided keeping my now best friend as a friend would be better to guide her than become her enemy. But I was blocked at every angle by the new lesbian girlfriend. After months of attempts I was threatened by the girlfriend that if I didnt leave them alone and leave there child alone she would call the police and have me arrested for raping my daughter since she was 14.

I backed down because that is some serious threats, but had lunch a few times and breakfast once with her and my grand baby. The girl friend found out and after that, I haven't heard anything since from my daughter, its been 6 months. Then CPS shows up at my door with the allegations and they took 60 days but did there investigation and after it they found no reason to proceeded. The agent told us that it was my ex who called them and made the complaint. She then told us that she had talked to the 22 year old "victim" and she stated to cps that it happened but wasnt going to press any charges because she dont want to deal with it. Duhh, she knows she cant lie in front of the court. So cps says they have to call my ex to inform her that they are dismissing the case and they do just that. My ex tells cps that she isnt backing down she wants me hung and she will get her kids back.

Through the course of all this we find out that my ex called right when she got her 2 week visitation in her home state. We believe it was specifically done then so I would be arrested and convicted and she would never have to return the kids to me. It was stated to my 18 year old when she asked why would the 22 year old say this and do this and the statement was " because he got married and she has no use for him"

So I have hired a very expensive criminal defense lawyer as insurance just in case this goes any further. My understanding and belief is the 22 year old is over it, dont want to file charges and have to be accountable for her actions. But my ex does without a doubt.

So my question is does anyone have any experience in this or advice for me. This has devastated my family and taken so much away from the kids because of the stress, fear and financial burden. If my ex keeps pressing the issue what can I do. I guess also can my ex who lives 800 miles away and dont have a job or a way to come to my state do anything or am I just living in fear?

Thank you


laurateames 3 months ago

Hi, my name is Laura. In 2011, my ex-husband came in my home, pulled two guns on me and said he was going to kill me and then himself. I had my 14 year old daughter in the house along with friends which he pulled a gun on them as well. I was shot twice and had to retrieve my own weapon in order to live. about 30 cops witnessed this as they would not come in and continued breaking my windows to get a shot at him before I got my weapon. I divorced my ex in 2000 and 11 years later he did this out of the blue. He had never been violent and I did not fear him. While in the hospital having sugery, CPS went and took MY kids out of school, in front of their peers after surviving this traumatic event and begin to question them. Never in the past was CPS ever called or any issues of violence. They harassed me the whole time for months as they found no evidence of wrong doing of me, yet would not close out the case. 8 months later, the CPS worker told me they were closing the case , yet told me I would be attending abuse classes for 8 weeks which put me in shock!!!! This guy came in my home, shot me, attacked my friends and child and tried to kill me and now CPS treats me like the criminal??? I told her " She would need a court order to get me into those classes" and I began to contact the attorneys in my family for help. Cps ended up not getting a court order, yet I later received a paper stating my ex was guilty and I was "in question" of endangerment, etc. I couldnt believe it! The city police dept was also in shock along with the D.A. SInce then, I have signed up with legal shield, began to speak to government officials on "Stand your ground" issues, etc. I have began speaking and informing all I can on the evils of CPS. They had victimize me no different than the criminal that shot me! I am an Occupational Therapist, two B. S. degrees, I come from a social and well known family here, a good family which I never was exposed to any abuse until that of Ruben Teames, my ex invaded my home and almost killed me. The experience has made me start to write books along with articles hoping to inform the public of not only CPS , but the government themselves and our rights that are being taken away more and more each day.


devotedmommy 3 months ago

My family was a victim of the cruelties of Cps in 2013. We live in Kansas City, Missouri. I was 24 at the time. My ex husband did not like the fact that my children loved my boyfriend more than him. My boyfriend had moved in with my two children and I. My son was 4 yrs. My daughter was 2 yrs. They loved him and he treated them like his own. He's the one for me and we wish to be married. But my biggest mistake Was allowing him to spank my children. Words can not express how much regret I have for that one single decision. I no longer use corporal punishment anymore because I do not believe it's beneficial and even when I did it was never extreme or in anger, just a quick smack on the bum but no longer do that even as I am scared to death of CPS being involved in my life again. We used time outs 75% of the time. My ex husband called CPS with allegations my boyfriend was physically abusing my children.( I know the in formant is "confidential" but I KNOW he made the call). He said there were bruises on their bodies. Yes there were bruises...on their legs, elbows, and some others that were from them being kids and playing outside. We were outside a lot as a family and we are outdoor enthusiasts. He also claimed I was a drug abuser, which when I met my ex husband he and I both smoked marijuana together. I do not believe smoking marijuana makes you a bad parent, I have severe anxiety issues due to my ex and family past and I do use it and I see it as medicine. I do not abuse any other drugs. I try and live a healthy lifestyle. The only reason I knew he told them that about the drugs was because I requested a copy of all the paperwork regarding the case once the case closed. They never drug tested me, I assume because at the home visit my house was clean, food stocked fridge, a normal family home. We were watching Mickey Mouse together when the worker arrived. I received a call from a social worker, very nice in the beginning but she was a wolf in sheep's clothing., but I had no idea why I was under suspicions of child abuse. She wanted a home visit so I complied like I said previously, nice clean home, goos environment for kids. I had nothing to hide. My kids were happy, taken care of, talkative, I answered all their questions. She left, I was assured my children seemed healthy happy and I was in no danger of an investigation. Two days later same worker called and told me that I had to give them to their father immediately for my children's "safety". Give my angels to an emotional abuser with anger problems who is not good for my children and who my son has hated since birth and had a very hard time having a relationship with. My ex has threatened to kill me, stalked me, brought a gun to my home after a threat and to this day I have a restraining order against him and had one at the time. I complied, trying to do the right thing. THIS WAS MY NEXT MISTAKE. DO NOT ALLOW CPS INTO YOUR HOME. DO NOT GIVE THEM ANY INFO, DO NOT GIVE YOUR CHILDREN TO THEM BECAUSE YOU ARE TRYING TO DO WHAT CPS IS TELLING YOU IT WILL HELP THE PROCESS PASS OVER QUICKER. They will use anything you say to them and twist it to what they want it to mean. I was threatened with law enforcement involvement so again, I complied. IF CPS CONTACTS YOU, CONTACT A GOOD ATTORNEY IMMEDIATELY. I mean IMMEDIATELY. I contacted one after my children were put in their fathers care. Once they were removed I had no physical contact with them for two months, I was not allowed to even have a supervised visit on my daughter's 3rd birthday. It was cruel and torturous. I called my children religiously every day to speak to them and assure them that mommy will be back with them. Eventually after a month of being in my ex husband's care my children started saying things such as "I hate you, I don't like you anymore". Before that started all they would ask me was when they could come home, how much they missed me, they were tired of staying with daddy, etc. We had never used negative words like hate in our home, their father had manipulated them to say and feel this way towards me. My children were also young and didn't understand the situation. I don't even understand why I was under investigation when the allegations were made against my boyfriend. After two LONG absolutely torturous months they were back in my care but under the condition my boyfriend move out of the home and he have no contact. I cried all day, every night my babies were gone, developed severe depression, anxiety sky rocketed. My BF saved my sanity through that time, it was the worst experience of my life and those feelings will never be erased from my heart. At the end of the investigation it was concluded that no abuse Occurred BUT they filed a POE against my Bf (preponderance of evidence. Basically meaning they believed he abused them but couldn't prove it. My son has severe anxiety and ptsd from being ripped from a loving and doting mother. He has also since been diagnosed also with autism. His behavior, once I received my children back worsened which is why I sought medical help for him. CPS TOOK MY HIGH FUNCTIONING AUTISTIC SON AWAY FROM THE ONLY PERSON PROTECTING HIS RIGHTS AND SHIELDING HIM FROM HARMFUL EMOTIONAL ABUSE! I understand there are parents out there with worse circumstances than mine was and my heart goes out to you. Fight them, document everything, if you cannot afford an attorney then you must do everything in your power to be your own and that means doing hours of research, it's a lot of work . BUT IT IS FOR YOUR CHILDREN, the single most important thing in your life. Do what it takes, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Make sure you have people supporting you through it. To the woman who made this website....thank you. You are fighting against a corrupt system and doing a wonderful thing. Please never stop. The pain of having your family ripped apart is literally unbearable. You inspired me to share my story online for the first time with others. (this was only the shortened version believe it or not). Stay strong parents, and get those wonderful children who you love and are your life back to you!


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